Dildos & Dongs

One of the most popular of sex toys, the dildo has been around for a very long time and has been used by people of many nations and cultures as far back as the ancient Greeks. Dildos are usually penis shaped and used for vaginal or anal penetration to simulate intercourse. They may be used for solo masturbation, or in the case of strap-on dildos they may be worn by one person to penetrate another.

Different Styles

Although the majority of dildos are basically penis shaped, they do come in a wide variety of styles from smooth and simple shapes to very realistic looking models. They can be made from a variety of materials, including rubber, silicone, and even metal or glass. Silicone dildos are usually of a higher quality and longer lasting, but can be more expensive to buy. Jelly type dildos are not as durable, but can be a good choice for beginners because they are softer and less expensive. For the most realistic experience, dildos made of 'Cyberskin' and similar materials offer an amazingly flesh like texture and appearance.

There are quite a few dildos made out of solid glass, and the designs can be quite exquisite. The beauty of these is the ease with which they can be kept clean. The downside is that they can be very expensive.

It's generally recommended that whatever type of dildo you choose, using a water based lubricant is best. Oil or silicone based lubes can damage some materials used in sex toys such as rubber, silicone, or Cyberskin. Water based lubes are compatible with all materials and clean up easily.

Although much more popular with women, some men also enjoy using dildos for anal penetration during masturbation, or for their partners to use a strap on dildo to penetrate them. The reason men enjoy this is because of the stimulation of the prostate gland. The prostate is located between the penis and anus, just below the bladder, and can be stimulated by applying pressure a few inches inside the anus against the front wall of the rectum. Stimulating the prostate in this way can increase the intensity of orgasm for males and in some cases increase ejaculation. Remember that dildos should not be used anally unless they have a wide base to prevent them from going all the way inside! If you do use them for anal play then be sure to use lots of lube.

Sharing the Fun

If you're masturbating with a friend, and you both want to use a dildo at the same time, you can use a double headed dildo which is long and flexible and has a penis head at both ends. Or if one of you wants to be penetrated by the other, try a strap-on dildo which is attached to a harness that fits around the waist and legs of the wearer.

Cleaning up Afterwards

When you've finished playing with your dildo, be sure to clean and store it properly. Wash it well with warm water and a mild antibacterial soap, or use a specialised sex toy cleaner. Pat it dry, then wrap it in a clean cloth before storing. Cyberskin toys need to be handled very carefully to avoid tearing the material, and should be dried thoroughly before putting away. To make cleaning easier, you may want to put a condom on your dildo before you use it, especially if you're going to use it anally. This is also recommended for all dildos made of Cyberskin, because its is harder to clean and more porous than other materials.